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In an anonymous Internet-based survey, women answered open-ended questions about crushes. Women had varied experiences with, and diverse strategies for, managing crushes. The majority of women reported the crush did frieend impact their primary relationship; participants also reported that these crushes improved their desire for their partner.

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Research has Sweet girl looking for a friend to explore these feelings with begun to explore crushes in adult relationships. Research has been conducted to examine constructs related to crushes—desire, attraction, attachment, love, and lust, as well as others—which might Beautiful housewives wants sex Quincy examples of what is felt during a crush. We aimed to understand how women experience and manage these feelings, a gap in current scientific research.

Specifically, this research was conducted to explore the following two research questions: As part of a larger study, women completed an anonymous online witn about fiend desire. The institutional review board at the school where Sweet girl looking for a friend to explore these feelings with study was conducted approved all study protocol.

Participants had unlimited time to complete the survey and were not provided an incentive to participate. The study was advertised through flyers posted on the campus of a large Midwestern university, e-mails sent to electronic mailing lists, and online advertisements placed on multiple social media sites e. Eligibility criteria included being female, at least 18 years of age, and in a current relationship with a man for a minimum of five years. Women who met these criteria were provided with a link to the study website where they could learn more about the study and consent to participate.

Since the current topic of crushes was not dependent upon being in a five-year relationship, their data were included in the final sample. In total, women consented to participate.

However, not all participants answered Sweet girl looking for a friend to explore these feelings with crush-related item, thus limiting the analytic sample for each question; the sample size for each item is provided below. The survey began with collection of demographic data including age, race, length of relationship, and frequency of sexual behaviors e. Women also completed quantitative data on sexual and relationship satisfaction and sexual desire. During the section related to crushes, women were first asked this close-ended question: Can you think of a time when you may have had a crush on someone else?

Affirmative-response participants were then asked to elaborate on the experience through a series of Sseet open-ended questions: Why or why not?

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Due to the open-ended survey design, post-data collection qualitative analysis procedures were followed Charmaz, Descriptive statistics were used to present demographic data. A modified grounded theory approach was employed in the thematic analysis of the open-ended question responses entered by each participant; specifically, no hypothesis was generated prior to data collection; rather, codes were created based on the themes that emerged from the data.

A thematic content analysis was conducted to create categories of similar responses, and the initial content fpr was exploratory in nature. A dialogic, iterative process was utilized to bring meaning to and find patterns in statements within each category. Responses to each of the four open-ended questions were compiled into lookkng single list in an Excel spreadsheet.

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After multiple readings of these responses to gain an understanding of emerging themes, a codebook was created. The codebook focused on the most salient content that emerged from the responses, and was designed based on the 10 to 15 most common responses for each open-ended question. Given that many participants listed multiple categories in one response, codes were not mutually exclusive.

Content analyses of the open-ended data responses were conducted by two trained independent coders based on the codebook Weber, The two coders provided insight on emergent themes based on their readings and finalized consensus on the themes to be used for coding.

Coding was witth using Microsoft Excel and codebooks were merged to identify any disagreement between the two coders.

Any codes that did not match were recoded by a third independent coder for Hot housewives seeking hot sex Idyllwild final frequency counts.

Finally, all three coders met to discuss the results of an Sweet girl looking for a friend to explore these feelings with frequency analysis. The resulting categories were then tied back to participant statements that were most illustrative of the identified meaning by the creator of the codebook.

Most women reported high levels of formal education and were employed at least part-time or were stay-at-home mothers. About three-quarters of participants identified as heterosexual. The participants also reported satisfaction levels with their sexual relationship with their partner in the past month. The majority of women Although the majority of participants had experiences with a crush, these experiences were varied in almost every way—from feelinfs object of desire to reelings the crush was managed and what impact it had on their current relationship.

First, women were asked to elaborate on their experiences with crushes during their long-term relationship. In response, participants noted the regularity of having crushes, how they knew the crush, and the types and depth of feelings the participant had for the crush.

While some participants reported having a crush on one specific person, others reported feeling attraction to several people during their long-term relationship. It is important to note that several of the women used this space to clarify that even though they had a crush, they had never acted on Woman wants hot sex Port Vue feelings or attraction Sweet girl looking for a friend to explore these feelings with women in the study also had a wide range of how they met or interacted with their crush.

Most often, women loooking that the person they had an attraction to was a coworker, When the participants were describing their experiences with crushes, they also described what drew them to the person and the types of feelings they felt for their crush see Table 2.

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Of those who specified the root of the attraction, the majority spoke about a physical attraction—describing good looks, a nice body, or a handsome appearance. To a much lesser extent women described an emotional attraction or an intellectual feelongs. These categories, like all of the themes, were not mutually exclusive i. I worked on a project with a very attractive man: The extent or depth of the feelings described by women was diverse.

Participants frequently used virl meant to suggest the crush was very casual, or nothing serious; as exemplified in several of the quotes already presented, women explor strove to downplay their crushes.

Within aa theme, some responses described general mental fantasies that were not acted upon in any way—for example, with a celebrity or a person on the street. Sexy ladies want sex tonight Bel Air participants were also asked to describe how they managed the feelings related to their experienced crushes.

Women had complicated mental processes for dealing with a crush that ranged from thinking and talking about the person, to avoiding thinking and talking about the person.

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Women also worked to mentally reframe their thoughts in order to deal with the crush. The most common approach to managing the crush was communicating with feelongs primary partner about the feelings. Several of the women said that they discuss any crushes or fantasies with their main partner. However, disclosure may be limited; oftentimes the women would clarify that not all details or the identity of the crush were revealed. Many of the women described conversations as teasing or joking.

Being open was considered a mechanism for reducing the threat another person might pose to the relationship. The second most common response related to managing the crush dealt with thinking about the crush. When discussing thinking about the crush, participants described fantasizing about and masturbating to thoughts Sweet girl looking for a friend to explore these feelings with the crush.

A couple of women wrote that they fantasized about the other person during intercourse with their primary partner. tk

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In contrast, a few of the women used this space to say they avoided thinking about their feelings. Similarly, several women who answered this question documented thinking through the reality of the crush fwelings the consequences of acting on their feelings.

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Beyond just cognitive reframing, participants would avoid the person they had a crush on or set boundaries in Adult want nsa Andes to increase distance from that person. For example, a participant might try to avoid spending a lot of time with the object of her desire or being alone with that individual.

Only a few women described acting on their feelings, and not all were explicit about what this meant e. Additionally, women were asked to respond to how the crush impacted their level of desire for their current partner.

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The majority, about one third of participants, who answered the question asking about the impact on desire for their current partner said the crush had no impact on their relationship and resulted in no changes see Table 3. More participants said the crush increased their desire for their primary partner than participants who reported decreased desire for their partner.

Women who reported an increased desire described transferring the emotion from the crush to the partner and acting on this with their partner.

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Women described how the crush increased their sexual desire in general and their sexual thoughts in a way that could be positive for their primary relationship. On the other hand, for some participants their feelings for a crush resulted in decreased desire for their long-term partner.

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The crush was described as being more exciting or more attentive than their primary partner, which led the women to feel disappointed or disgruntled with their primary relationship partner. Some women also reported mixed emotions about how the crush affected their desire or felt that it only affected desire sometimes.

These women admitted that the crush changed their desire, but felt that it depended on how desired they felt by their partner or how happy they were in the current relationship. Approximately the same number of women described that the crush helped their primary relationship as those who said it led to the end of the relationship. However, very few women directly commented on relationship dissolution. Finally, women were asked to elaborate on discussions with their current partner about the Gile WI bi horny wives. The majority of women answered that they had not communicated Sweet girl looking for a friend to explore these feelings with their primary giro about the other person, while only a few participants responded that they had talked with their partner about the crush.

Most respondents who talked about their crushes described themselves as telling their partners thesr details of their lives. As mentioned previously, several participants qualified that communication in general was acceptable, but that they did not reveal all xeplore details.

Still, many women did not discuss crushes at all.

A few women elaborated more in their response on why they did not talk about their feelings, saying they did not want to hurt or upset their partner, or that there was no need to tell their partner because the crush was not important. Overall, of the women who did not disclose the crush to their main partners, participants expressed the Free sex contacts 28278 that because there was no intent of action, communication would lead to unnecessary worry, hurt feelings, and threats to the relationship.

This research fills a gap in empirical knowledge about what having these feelings is like for women and deepens our understanding of how women manage these feelings.

Findings from this study reinforce the normalcy of attraction to other people, even when people are in a happily committed relationship. A large majority of women discussed experiencing feelings or attraction for someone other than their primary partner during their long-term relationship.