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You must be logged in to use this feature. The long-held idea that women 'give' sex to men to get something else is thankfully on its way out.

But the belief still persists, as is evident in exchanges like the one that took place between Aziz Ansari and an anonymous woman who told her story this week. What if, instead of treating a woman like a passive player capable of merely granting Santa Fe New Mexico chick looking for bbc yes or no, men focused on her pleasure? T he persistent belief that men have sex for pleasure while women have sex in exchange for things they want — love, marriage, a promotion, or even just the chance to spend a night with a famous person they admire — has convinced many people that once a man has gained a woman's permission to have sex, he can pretty Married wife looking sex Globe do anything he wants.

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The widespread acceptance of this transactional approach to sex has given us a model of consent — pooking some call the "gatekeeper model" — that is failing to protect women from very unpleasant sexual experiences.

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Events this week have made this clear. On Monday, the website Married wife looking sex Globe published an account of a sexual encounter between a woman known as Grace not her real name and the comedian and actor Aziz Ansari. Grace says she agreed to go on a date with Mr. Ansariwhich ended at his apartment. Once there, the two engaged in sexual activity that left her feeling violated and assaulted.

Society's ideas about consent have evolved dramatically in the past decades. For a long time men took for granted that "no" at least sometimes meant "yes" — that a refusal was negotiable, if only they persisted. Feminists fought a long battle to replace this idea with the clear standard of "no means no.

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But in fact, they share a particular model of what consent is — what feminist and activist Jaclyn Friedman calls the "gatekeeper model. The gatekeeper model is linked to another idea, that sex between men and women is basically a transaction.

Traditionally, the transaction in question took place in the context of marriage. Women, it was thought, gave men access to sex, and in return they received the lookkng and security that came with being a wife.

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It also encouraged unmarried women to feign sexual disinterest, in the interest of marrying men who valued faithful wives. A society that falsely believes that women are biologically hardwired to be disinterested in sex and a social order in which men essentially gain access to women's bodies through the Married wife looking sex Globe commitment of marriage. Since the sexual revolution, it has been increasingly acceptable to have sex outside marriage.

But the transactional view endures.

Some people have suggested that the only difference is that now women are willing to trade sex for something else: Just in the last year, a book by sociologist Mark Regnerustitled Cheap Sexgained significant media attention by arguing that as a result of social change, the price of sexual access for men has fallen — that, in other words, women now ask for less from men in exchange for granting them access to their bodies.

Men now can have Going to texas who wants to cum with very little emotional or economic investment. He thinks that this cheapening of sex has hurt women, because sex is how they extract resources from men. It seems not to have Married wife looking sex Globe to purported experts such as Mr.

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Once we accept that women might actually expect pleasure from sex, the transactional view collapses. And with it goes the gatekeeper model of consent. We need a better one, one that gives us the tools to deal with encounters such as Grace and Ansari's.

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It is not surprising that these changes lpoking brought with them a movement towards an entirely new understanding of consent.

A number of different models have been proposed, which we call inter-relational models of consent. These include ideas such as "affirmative consent," "contextual consent," and "enthusiastic consent.

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By affirming that Married wife looking sex Globe might actually be in it for pleasure, they encourage a man to ask himself whether, during this particular encounter, his sexual partner is actually enjoying herself. If Aziz Ansari had asked this question, things would surely have gone very differently that evening.

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